Why Women Leave Husbands – the Four Main Reasons

Nowadays, a lot of marriages don’t last long enough to realize the oath “until death do us part”. If you take a time and see why women leave husbands, you’ll realize that most of the problems that cause it can be resolved if you are willing to put some efforts into it. Here are the 4 reasons why women leave husbands, and what can be done about them.

Problem 1 – He’s Not Working Hard Enough

Marriage requires lots of work, and if you are married, you know very well what I am talking about. However, many women leave their husbands simply because they feel like he’s stopped putting the effort into it. When women see their partners start to turn them off, it is the beginning of the end. She feels like she’s putting in all the effort, and she figures “Why bother?”

This is tough for men to comprehend. Usually, they feel like they’re working hard at their work, and this is their contribution to the relationship. They’re worn out by this contribution, and it makes THEM feel unappreciated and leads to resentment. But, what she is talking about is emotional commitment.

What You Could Do – Spend some time together. Plan it, like it’s an appointment with a client or buyer. Make time together and keep it focused on both of you. It is just as simple as that.

Problem 2 – Where’s The Affection?

Aside from his time and effort, women also need affection. This naturally dwindles down from the first date to 30 years of married life. However – you cannot let this happen! It is just as significant now as it was when you were first dating. A lot of guys don’t realize this.

Without that spark of affection, a marriage will become a joint venture and practically nothing more. It might not even be a friendship anymore, and this is dangerous. Believe it or not, women need love, affection and intimacy a lot more than men do, and this includes what goes on in the bedroom.

What You Could Do – Start going out on dates just as before. Go back to those magical beginning days. Spend some time making a little love.

Problem 3 – You Just Don’t Listen

Within her needs, a woman also needs to be listened to. Plenty of women report their husbands’ inability to pay attention as the top reason. Actually, the problem isn’t that men don’t listen; it’s that they simply cannot stop themselves from offering their opinions and trying to “fix” things. It’s part of a man’s primal nature, I guess.

What You Could Do – Ask her about her day, then shut up and pay attention when she’s talking. Ask her open-ended questions like “How did that make you feel?” Don’t worry about solutions; your listening is sufficient.

Problem 4 – Being Unfaithful

This one is quite easy to understand. He has an affair, she finds out, and then it’s finished. Nevertheless, there is a deeper truth hidden behind it. Having an affair is marriage suicide and the majority of men realize it. You fully aware that your wife will not give you a second chance if she finds out. No other woman’s really worth all that, and you know it.

When a woman finds out that her husband’s had an affair, it opens a whole Pandora’s Box of bad feelings about him. It also opens up all her negative feelings about herself. This double whammy is more than most women can handle, and that’s why it’s time for divorce.

What You Could Do – Men who are cheating should QUIT right this moment, and then look for the actual reasons why they’re doing it. Those reasons are the real problem, so find them and fix them. The problem involves her? Lay the cards on the table, speak with her, and find a solution. Only then, you can have a happy marriage once again. If you get caught cheating, you’ve got a long road ahead of you to build up that trust again.

A marriage takes work. If you notice the signals that she’s considering to leave, then you should ACT; RIGHT NOW. Keep in mind that you’re the only person that can save the marriage.

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6 Responses to Why Women Leave Husbands – the Four Main Reasons

  1. Heartful says:

    I left my husband five months ago because he took me for grant I really loved my husband he didn’t really know what he had but he will know what he lost no doubt he will find someone but you won’t know if she really loves him or wants him for what he can do for her remember if you have a good wife don’t take advantage of her love her

  2. ivan says:

    ONLY GOD JESUS is love. All us humans are the ten commandments in reverse. We must be taught and learn how
    to understand and keep the ten commmandments. Other wise
    we are just two faithless unfaithful humans trying to get
    married for lust, selfishness, ego, and everthing elese
    except for the LOVE OF GOD IN US>

  3. joe trione says:

    my wife left and hasnt been back in last 2 months we were married in october she says shes not happy with me and that we rushed into marriage most days lately im lucky to get one text or call a day shes fresh out of prison and is bipolar ive asked her why she isnt happy but she cant tell me why shes moved out im not sure what to think

  4. ben says:

    My wife left because she found a man who makes more money.Then after doing so .She found out we both where lieing. He lied and was making alot less money then he said.And i lied and was hiding alot of money she didnt know about.Now she wonts to come back.I LMMFAO @ her.She is pist off now.HAHAHAHAH .HEY YOU GOT TO HIDE MONEY FROM SOME ONE WHO WONT STOP SPENDING EVERY THING YOU MAKE.AND I WASNT HIDING IT FROM HER JUST SO I HAS KEEPING IT FOR ME.I WAS KEEPING IN PUT AWAY IN CASE I REALY MAKE IT TO RETIRING .She found out i am make 2 times the money she didnt know i was.HAHAHAHAHA sorry sucker.

    • Brent says:

      Way to go.
      Looks like god sorted it all out for you.
      Now go find a women with a Job that truly loves you for you. Then you will have a happy life. That is just an evil story. My wife used to spend tons of my money and look at me and say you will just have to work harder and make more huh. Not cool at all and god is still working on this one…..

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