Why Men Leave Their Wives – Six Biggest Factors

Why men leave their wives? There are several different variables that can cause him to leave his wife. Bellow are the most typical problems that could make men decide to leave their wives and choose divorce as a solution:

Stagnancy – Occasionally a marriage gets too mundane and routine for men. They will come home and have the same routine wishing that things will be different that day yet the wife will just refuse a change to her comfortable routine. A man will leave to find something more exciting in his life.

Cheating - An unfaithful wife is sufficient grounds for a man to leave or kick his wife from the home. A creeping suspicion of cheating can invariably affect and seed a concern of being left for another man so he might initiate the leaving first. Women can avoid this by not being excessively flirtatious with other men.

Disagreement – Having different views on religion, politics and even trivial matters could easily drive a man away from their wife if they simply do not want to put up with the arguments anymore. Conflicts happening too frequently might prove too much for his patience and drive him away quickly.

Lack of Recreation – Any man hopes to have time for their selves where they can enjoy some rest and relaxation before returning to work in the week. Wives who take up their husband’s time are treading on dangerous waters by continuing to keep their men irritable which leads to complications later.

Masculinity – Women who emasculate their husbands or make them feel underappreciated will make a man feel like leaving. Women that make more money, are not feminine enough or just aren’t fitting the standard role determined by society are in high risk of having a man leaving. Regardless of how understanding or accepting they may seem of their gender role, masculinity plays a huge role on whether or not they stay in the relationship.

Longing for the Single Life – Men who partied often might feel like they miss having anyone they wished. The same situation where men get married young to their girlfriends may feel like they overlooked life in their early years. Leaving to seek out or replenish this youthful feeling of minimal care can certainly drive a man to leave his wife, home and even their work.

One or more of the issues above can make a man to abandon the marriage. Men are all different, no matter how similar they seem so even causes not mentioned in this list could easily cause them to leave their wives with little notice. A situation where everything may seem well may actually be disaster brewing between a man and his wife. A woman can do everything right in their own eyes but still do something to drive away their husbands if they do not take the appropriate measures in tackling issues that cause men leave their wives.

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15 Responses to Why Men Leave Their Wives – Six Biggest Factors

  1. debbie says:

    My husband cheated on me again, for the fith time. We were married for 34 years. I tried really hard, I am a beautiful woman, our kids are grown. I forgave him for past affairs and he told me he loved only me. He begged me back each time until the last affair. The woman he had his last affair with is 15 yrs younger than me and has 5 kids under 18. She had also been with my husband 2 other times. The first time she was 15 and he was 30. My husband and i had just lost a child to cancer. My husband was very sorry and came home to his family. The woman knew he was married. My husband and I loved each other very much and worked things out. Than 25 years later contacted him on Facebook while I was away. She had been divorced two times and again knew he was married. They again had an affair, I had no idea. She would contact me and say awful things to me. That is how I found out. After he denied the affair by saying I was crazy many times he finally confessed and was not sorry. I could not take it any more so after 34 yrs if marriga to a man I thought was my soul mate and best friend, I loft and we got divorced. My family is destroyed and she has taken my place in my home my bed, ECT. I told her she could have him. She won and got what she wanted. My grown kids are devastated, and I am now single and hear broken. I have to start over which I am trying to do. My kids tell me that when they visit their dad at our home. They tell me that the woman and my ex talk about me and say mean things about me. I have asked my ex to please not talk about me in that way. I am not a threat to this woman or my ex in any way. I tell my kids their fad loves them very much and believe it would be wrong for me to talk about their dad in a mean way. I am struggling financially and am trying to heal emotionally. Why is my ex so angry with me and why does his girlfriend say mean things about me in front of my kids. We are divorced, she got what she wanted. I am so hurt and feel like a fool for forgiving my ex so many times. I really trusted him. I have lost my best friend and my family is torn to pieces. What did I do wrong. Why would a woman do this to a family and why did my husband do this even after he said he would never cheat on me again and he loved only me. He said I taught him what love was and I would never have to be concerned about him having an affair again. Yet he did and our marriage is over.

  2. lildick's ex says:

    they leave because they are not mature enough to stay and TRY. so they leave like the cowards that they are. AND why is it always the wife to blame ???? did he stay sexy looking – no packed on weight – did he appreciate me ? no just complained- did he make the money ??? only when he worked which was only part time so yes I DID MAKE MORE $$$$ because I WORKED MORE – glad he is gone now though ;-)

    • Neil says:

      After 20 years do you still keep trying.if you don’t know the situation what give you the right to judge.i made a promise to love and cherish my wife for life,I still do but I’ve become lonely and fed up with the same crap everyday.Ive tried to spice up our lives but it’s always I’m tired or I really don’t feel like it,or just left in limbo not knowing what she wants.

  3. James Hightower says:

    Stagnancy, is mine, I firmly feel No Man will Leave his wife if they Continue to pay close attention to each other. Maturity does factor in but when Frustration Really settles in Some men will flee. Divorce Solves Nothing, Go to what worked, & if that doesn’t fly learn what will. Communicate. The Only way other people get into your relationships is by gaps & cracks, men a women Solidify your Marriage, Stop Placing Blame….REPAIR.

  4. didi says:

    the “clever” people say you should respect your husband you(the wife) should not nagg her husband with her troubles and first let him talk about his day before you talk about your day you should keep your self(body,clothing,nails,hair)in a presentable manner!! BS… if that man made up his mind to cheat and have a girl to cheat with or more he will just do it. you(the wife)remember should not nagg him, wich means if he come home late …no asking him where he was and why he is late. dont try to find out if he was really in office or wherever. just be loving to someone who dont give a sh@#. marriage is a nightmare with a husband who is a coward and selfish. i am getting divorce and believe you me no more marring for me. it is fake. when you young you are golden when you reach 30 to 36 you are boring and dull in his eyes. when you try to get to the bottom of what is actually going on here you are too overpowering…..blame blame blame to put you of track . Sorry married couples but single is my new name. no stress about where he is what he is up to how he is cheating and cuddling with younger girls and waisting family money on them and then electric bills cant be paid minimum groceries for 3 kids school fees totally in arrears. oh yes mommy is working she can sort that out. what ever. i am done complaining about nothing. keep up the fighting for your marriages women good luck. ya i am still in pain as you can read. but i will get over all of it by the grace of Our God.

  5. love says:

    Hello, just wanted to tell you, I liked this article. It was
    helpful. Keep on posting!

  6. Martin Pharoah says:

    I think married women/men who cheat should just get a divorce manual and get one, why pay more social security out to the boring wife/husband than you have too. Life is waiting for you!

  7. alloxiastam says:

    Today is virtuous indisposed, isn’t it?

  8. sandra says:

    The number one reason men leave their wives is lack of emotional intimacy. They may still love their wife but without intimacy and closeness, you are married to nothing but a roommate. Emotional intimacy is not sexual, it is comfort, hugging each other, listening to someone you really care about, the ability to talk about anything going on in your life. Yes, it takes to two people to be able to give the intimacy to each other. Eventually when couples get too busy or start to move away from each other regardless of the reason, the emotional intimacy ceases. From there, the couple continues to move away from each other. Couples who have successful relationships share the same nature and values, like each other and find it easy to want to comfort each other.

    • Janice says:

      I think some of what you said is true but my husband at first when we met was not affectionate, after 12 years of me putting up with it now he tells me he meet someone that he can talk with, laugh with and all the things I wanted him to do he said he was not like that. I am so happy he is gone out my life. He will do the same to her first a little attention then none.

  9. Kevin says:

    I can’t speak for anyone but myself. The reason that I left was a combination of some of the things in the article, but mostly it was the disrespect. Everything I did was wrong and everything the kids did was perfect. It really seems to come down to wives stop being wives and are just mommy. Many men that I have talked to are just tired of not even being considered. The whole kids first thing is destroying marriage. That is the whole shift these days. Put your partner first in everything, always. Anything else and it may take months or most likely years (I was married for 28 yrs) but the pain of staying was worse than the pain of leaving.

    • Ace says:

      Amen, Brother. I left after a long period as well. I tried very hard over the years to make it work, but she just ignored me. I left and haven’t been this happy in decades.

    • d says:

      Is abandoning the marriage and leaving your partner your idea of putting your partner first? (as you suggested)

    • Joe says:

      I left for the same reason, Kevin. We have been divorced for 26 years now and our daughters grew up to be the same way. Nothing is ever good enough. I love them from afar and could not care any less. The loneliness of living in a house where one is constantly disrespected is much more difficult than living alone, as I see things. My new partner’s children treat me with great respect and thank me for being around. Why wouldn’t I do anything for them over my own biological daughters. I could not care any less how they perceive things. Emotional abuse is often hidden.

  10. sandra guess who says:

    YOU HAVE MISSED THE NUMBER ONE REASON. THEY DONT WANT TO BE A MATURE ADULT WHO FACES RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS ACTIONS. HOW ABOUT THE CHILDREN???? DID THEY DRIVE DADDY AWAY BECAUSE THEY ASKED FOR SOME TIME WITH HIM? ASKED HIM TO READ ONE TOO MANY BEDTIME STORIES? TOO MANY REQUESTS TO GO TO THE PARK? OH…I KNOW HE CHANGED “ONE” TOO MANY DIAPERS. WAAAHHH BOO HOO. POOR DADDY. RUN DADDY RUN…

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